ASK

Ask anything.Plain words are fine.

You can ask a pastor a question here without an account, without your legal name, and without knowing the correct word for the thing you are asking about. Every petition is read by the Office of the Ordinary and answered within two days. If tonight is dangerous, the numbers below come first.

If you are in danger tonight, these answer faster than we can, at any hour. Nothing on this page is more important than the four numbers below.

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988Free and open every hour of every day, across the United States.
  • Trans LifelineCall 877-565-8860Peer support, staffed by trans people. Does not call police or emergency services without your consent.
  • The Trevor ProjectCall 1-866-488-7386, or text START to 678-678For LGBTQ people under 25. Chat, text, and phone.
  • Oregon Child Abuse HotlineCall 855-503-SAFE (855-503-7233)If a child is being harmed. The clergy of this church are mandatory reporters under ORS 419B.010, and that duty is not dispensable by anyone here, including the Ordinary.
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HOW ASKING WORKS HERE

No form of words is required.

Most petitions arrive badly worded, and that has never once been a problem. People write asking about “the thing where you get the oil,” or ask whether a marriage counts, or ask something that turns out to be about a funeral eleven years ago. The Chancery reads for what is being asked, not for how well it is phrased.

You will not be handed to a volunteer, a chatbot, or a queue. The Office of the Ordinary reads every petition personally, and petitions to the Chancery are answered within two days.

Asking creates no obligation. A great many questions end with an answer and nothing else, and that is a complete and finished outcome.

On confidentiality, stated with its limits

What you write is read by the Office of the Ordinary and is not published, shared, or added to any list. The seal of confession is absolute and permanent, and correspondence is not confession. Oregon clergy are mandatory reporters of child abuse under ORS 419B.010, the clergy-penitent privilege at ORS 40.260 is narrow, and this church tells you that before you write rather than after.

TWELVE QUESTIONS ALREADY ANSWERED

If yours is one of these, the answer is a page.

I

“Do I have to be baptized again?”

Almost never. A valid baptism is permanent and no church could revoke yours by letter or by vote.

The answer →
II

“Is who I am a sin I should confess?”

No. Your existence is not matter for confession, and no confessor here will treat it as such.

The answer →
III

“Could someone like me be ordained?”

Holy orders are open to every baptized person found fit, regardless of sex, gender identity, or gender history. Rome holds otherwise.

The answer →
IV

“Is there anyone else like me?”

Support groups, with named leaders and stated limits. Enrolment is open.

The answer →
V

“Someone died and the church made it worse.”

Grief that includes a funeral you were not allowed to attend, or one where the name was wrong.

The answer →
VI

“I was thrown out of my church.”

What was revoked was membership. What you have is something else, and it was never theirs to cancel.

The answer →
VII

“What do you actually believe?”

The declaration, published in full rather than summarised into something safer.

The answer →
VIII

“Where do you stand on us?”

Stated positions, with the reasoning and the sources, including where this church differs from Rome.

The answer →
IX

“How do I report a cleric?”

The reporting route is published and is non-dispensable even by the Ordinary. It does not go through the person complained of.

The answer →
X

“What does this cost me?”

Nothing. Giving is separate from care, buys nothing, and is never a condition of anything.

The answer →
XI

“How would I actually join?”

The catechumenate in four stages. Enrolment is open and the first cohort is being received now.

The answer →
XII

“Will you pray for someone?”

Yes. Send a name or a situation; it is carried in worship and never published.

The answer →
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER YOU SEND IT

Four steps, and you control every one.

It arrives at the Chancery

Petitions land with the Office of the Ordinary. They are not routed to a volunteer, a committee, or an assistant.

It is read personally

The Ordinary reads every petition. If you ask to be answered directly by the Ordinary rather than by the Chancery, that request is honoured.

Answered within two days

You get a plain answer

Including when the answer is no, or “this church cannot do that,” or “what you need is not a priest but a lawyer.” Honesty first, comfort second.

Nothing follows unless you want it

No newsletter, no follow-up sequence, no appeal for money. Ask for the correspondence to be deleted and it is deleted.

BEFORE YOU WRITE

Five things worth knowing first.

No. Plenty of petitions begin by saying that the writer does not believe any of it and has a question anyway. That is a real question and it gets a real answer.
Yes. Use the name you use. Nobody is asked to prove identity in order to ask a pastor a question, and no petition has ever been refused for being unsigned.
It is read by the Office of the Ordinary and is not published, shared, or sold. It is not the seal of confession, which applies to the sacrament itself and is absolute. Mandatory reporting of child abuse under Oregon law applies here as it does everywhere, and that is stated plainly above.
Petitions to the Chancery are answered within two days. If a question needs longer — a records search, a canonical question, a marriage — you are told that within those two days rather than left waiting.
Send it. Small questions are the ordinary kind, angry ones are welcome, and nothing you write will be treated as a test of whether you deserve an answer.

Ask your question

Plain words, any length, no name required. If you want it answered directly by the Ordinary rather than by the Chancery, say so in the message and it will be.

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ASK

The question you think
is too small is the one.

One sentence is enough, and it has never once been the wrong first step. If the answer needs a different door, the Chancery will point you at it.